The invention relates to a compound with spontaneously restored force-induced color changing property and containing a tetraphenyl ethylene group, preparation and an application. The compound with spontaneously restored force-induced color changing property and containing the tetraphenyl ethylene group has a structure shown in a formula 1, 2 or 3 in the specification. After a solid sample of the compound is subjected to mechanical force grinding, fluorescent light can turn into green from blue, and green fluorescent light after grinding can be autonomously restored to blue fluorescent light, so that the spontaneously restored force-induced color changing property is shown up. Therefore, the compound provided by the invention is hopeful to be applied the fields of sensors and dynamic random access memories to some extent.