The present invention provides an uplink and downlink wave beam shaping measure system and method. The uplink and downlink wave beam shaping measure system and method are able to measure and obtain the transmission matrix of a whole wave beam shaping system based on a software radio technology. The system comprises: a sending terminal of an uplink wave beam shaping system, wherein a sending channel is connected with a calibration channel of a sending channel amplitude consistency calibration network and the receiving channel of the feed source matrix of the uplink wave beam shaping network; the sending channel amplitude consistency calibration network employing an online calibration mode; and a downlink wave beam shaping system receiving terminal, wherein the receive channel is connected with the sending channel of the feed source matrix of the downlink wave beam shaping network. The uplink and downlink wave beam shaping measure system and method are able to ensure the accurate degree of the sending terminal to send multi-path sinusoidal signal amplitude phase information and perform the calibration of sending feed source signals and the test of the receiving feed source signals at the same time so as to improve the test efficiency of the test system and effectively reduce the test workload and the test system complexity.