The present disclosure relates to an active optical cable connector and an active optical cable assembly. The active optical cable connector includes a power supply interface, an optoelectronic conversion module and a short-range wireless communication module, wherein the power supply interface is electrically connected with the optoelectronic conversion module and the short-range wireless communication module, respectively, and the short-range wireless communication module is configured to transmit a control signal and a low-speed signal of the active optical cable.