The invention relates to a friend method, and in particular relates to a friend matching method and system. The friend matching method comprises the steps of: sending friend matching requests of users to a server; adding users passing the matching requests into a matching pool, so that friend matching is carried out; and, sending video chat operation to the users, which are successful in friend matching. According to the friend matching method and system disclosed by the invention, a simple and direct video is adopted; random matching is carried out; a one-to-one video is adopted; therefore, the network social problems, such as false sexes, fraudulent pictures and robot accounts, can be solved; due to real-time response, an interactive scene in real life can be effectively restored; due to a one-to-one mode, the social intimacy is ensured; and thus, under the trend that everyone pursues the quality and the efficiency, the friend matching method and system are essential.