The invention discloses a social network friend making recommendation method and system based on double attractiveness calculation, and belongs to the technical field of the internet. The method comprises the following steps: first, identifying users in a social exploration stage to establish a social exploration stage user list; then, calculating a double attractiveness index of two users in the social exploration stage according to individual attributes of the users in the social exploration stage to obtain a matching degree thereof; and finally, dynamically displaying a recommendation result to the users in the social exploration stage according to the matching degree. Compared with the existing method, the method has the advantages that: the method is used for only recommending other users in the social exploration stage for the user in the social exploration stage by identifying the users in the social exploration stage, so as to eliminate the harassment to the users. Meanwhile, a double attractiveness index probability computing model is designed to recommend matched users, so as to improve the recommendation accuracy.