The invention discloses a method for controlling the orderly connection of a Bluetooth headset by using a terminal, which comprises the following steps: setting a service status of an autologous hands-free profile HFP to be visible and connected by using theterminal and setting service statuses of an autologous advanced audio transfer profile A2DP and an audio/video remote control profile to be invisible and unconnected; transmitting an HFP connection request to the terminal by using the Bluetooth headset; and transmitting a response of agreeing with HFP connection to the Bluetooth headset by using the terminal. The invention further discloses a system for controlling the orderly connection of the Bluetooth headset by using the terminal; and when the connection is actively initiated by the Bluetooth headset, different Profile connection sequences caused by different Bluetooth headset manufacturers can be avoided by applying the method and the system so that the problem of incompatible profile connection is solved.