Lead-screw nut vice transmission control device and the method and the processing method of nut components, the torque sensor in hydraulic control device of control device changes the torque transmitted by lead-screw into signals and transmits the signals to controller, the controller sends the oil duct reversing control signals on the three-position four-way magnetic reversing solenoid valve, the controller controls the output mouth pressure of pressure control valve which is transmitted on the side surface contacted with nut and lead-screw through two pipelines, the screw thread two sides of nut is opened with two spiral oil-storing grooves which are sealed and formed by two end covers of nut two ends and the surface contacted with nut and lead-screw; the control method is: the controller controls the output mouth pressure of pressure control valve to make it is less than or equal with 8TN/((phi12-phi22)L), the processing method is: first assembling the nut and two end covers into one unit, processing screw thread on the inner hole surface of nut and two end covers, then processing two spiral oil-storing grooves on the screw thread two sides of nut, last assembling the nut and two end covers into one unit.